Love isn't constant perfection and no one is supposed to understand it. But it's real and it keeps your heart beating and it keeps you wanting more. Love gives you a bright light of hope in your heart and a black hole of mystery in your mind. Sometimes love doesn't make sense, but it's worth it. It always is.
Sometimes my mind wanders and my thoughts always seem to come back to you. I don't know why. I'm happy it does though. It's like I'm with you all the time. And whenever I think about how wonderful you are, it makes me smile.
I've broken up with my ex-bf for close to a year now.I still miss him and love him like I used to, but he's clearly moved on with a few other girls after me.its been a terrible year for me but your posts kept me going. Thank you so much..its so comforting to find someone who understands the pain I'm going through.. thanks :')
I’m really sorry to hear that. It must have been painful and I can understand because I have been through that as well. Please stay strong, and I hope that with time, your feelings for him will fade and you’ll find the happiness you deserve. Remember, your friends and family still care about you :) x
Hi! I can see that your blogs are really big help to some teenagers like us! Good job! :D
Well actually, like others here.. I need some advice from you if you dont mind :)
My bestfriend's exboyfriend is courting me since last 4 years.. We dont actually have a regular communications (it's like on and off courting). Well at first I dont have any plan to be with him, but we are a part of a circle of friends so at times we get closer again then asked me again then I'd say no again. But this past few months I've decided to give him a chance and now I think im falling for him but we lost communications again. We do have communications but not as regular as before. I think he still like me but he's not that sweet as before. Im a no-boyfriend-since-birth 18 year old teen and I want my first boyfriend to be like no complications since he's an ex of my bestie. Though my bff knows about him courting me, I still dont like it to be what it is. And im not yet sure of my feelings for him. I think im falling for him but when I think of him the feelings rapidly fades. I can't make him my inspiration but I always wanted chatting with him. I dont know what to do. I need inspirational words from you. Thanks :)
Hello there! From what you’re telling me, I think it’s more of an infatuation with this guy, and what you seem to want is company. Perhaps you enjoy his company and he makes you feel special so it makes you think you’re falling in love with him. Or maybe you really do have feelings for him but the feelings are not that strong? You have to figure your own feelings out. But remember to give yourself time and try not to rush into things :)
“Sometimes the things you want the most don’t happen and what you least expect happens. I don’t know - you meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed forever.”—Love and Other Drugs
Of course you're gonna get your heart broken. And it isn't just going to happen once, but many times. That's part of growing up, and it'd make you stronger so you can handle it better the next time. You may not get through it yourself, but your friends will help you through. Then, one day, someone will come along, and it'll all pay off, and no one will ever break your heart again.
“When you love someone, you’ll do anything you can to keep them with you. Unfortunately, there is also a point when you have to step back and say that it’s time to let go.”—Jodi Picoult, My Sister’s Keeper
There’s a difference between saying good bye and letting go. Saying good bye is "I’ll see you again when I’m ready to hold your hand, and when you’re ready to hold mine." Letting go is "I’ll miss your hand. But I realized it’s not mine to hold, and I will never hold it again."
“But who can say what’s best? That’s why you need to grab whatever chance you have of happiness where you find it, and not worry about other people too much. My experience tells me that we get no more than two or three such chances in a life time, and if we let them go, we regret it for the rest of our lives.”—Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood
It's never too late to go back and fix things that didn't work out as planned. All of us make mistakes and we hurt the people we love. It is possible to fix it. It won't be easy of course, but if you care enough about someone, you'll go around the world and back, just to make things work.
You're never going to love someone more or less than your last, but you're going to love them differently. Every relationship offers something different, you just have to find the one that offers exactly what you need.
I tried so hard. I tried harder than you could ever imagine and here I am now, still trying my best to forget everything, to forget every piece of you. The way you smell, the feel of your skin, the sound of your laughter. I can still feel you. I think I always will.
“Don’t ask yourself what you did wrong or how you could have done it differently. Don’t waste your valuable heart and mind trying to figure out why he did what he did. Or thinking back to all the things he said and wondering what was the truth and what was the lie. The only thing you need to know is that it’s really good news: he’s gone. Hallelujah.”—He’s Just Not That Into You
Life should be spent finding beauty in flowers, clouds and poetry. Days should be spent dreaming, reading, watching sunsets and playing with babies and animals. Life is also about making the people around you smile and sometimes, on good days, life should be spent falling in love.
There's this guy and he left his exgirlfriend for another girl. But after a few months he left the other girl for his exgirlfriend, telling her he made a mistake. How do you tell if he is being sincere?
You know what, with regards to this, I really have no clue. It really depends. I guess a good way to see would be the effort he’s willing to make, to let the ex girlfriend know how much he loves her. Actions though, not just words.
my boyfriend and I, have been together for over 9 months, we've broken up once in that space of time, for 1 week and 6 days. Throughout that time, everything hurt and nothing mattered, and the only thing I thought made it easier were the tiny glimpses he took, just to look at me. Everyday I cried, and everyday I was sad, we did sort it out, obviously, but last night we had a bad argument, in which he responded to "is this going to end" with an "I don't know". It hurt because, losing him before was the worse feeling I'd ever had. And I'm pretty sure, that throughout everything, including the 3-5 weeks we saw each other, he's the one.
He's the only person who makes everything worth it. Being with him makes me forget all the bad things, and the arguments my family have, and he just makes things good again. But ever since his "i don't know", he's been off with me in texts, and telling me he's only annoyed because I'm worried. But don't I have that right to be? And I explain as to why I was worried; that I didn't want to lose him over something like this, and that he scared me when he said that.
But he continued to be off and blunt and I just feel like, perhaps, he doesn't want to be with me, but just can't say it. My friends, and his friends know he isn't that sort of person, so why am I so set up on that fact? I've tried thinking positive; putting my mind away from it - and he is ringing me tonight, and we're seeing one another on Wednesday - but, it still frightens me to lose him. Because all of my happiness will go. I hadn't been happy in 6 years because of my grandad's death, and he made everything perfect.
He's my brightest star. Please help me. How do I stop being so stupid and worried...
I think it’s normal to have squabbles and arguments and little fights in a relationship. But of course, you can’t also be fighting everyday. From what you tell me, it seems that you guys don’t argue very often? So I don’t really think it’s much of an issue.. I know it’s easy to feel insecure and scared about losing someone you love, but I think you have to spare a thought for the other person as well, try to have faith in him, in yourself, and in the both of you. Maybe he’s feeling insecure just like you are, or shaken, after the argument, so when you meet him, just try to do things that both of you love and enjoy the time together. Things should be fine. x
You hug him good bye like it's nothing when all you really want to do is hold on forever. Then you let go, muster a smile and walk away and cry all the way home because you know things will never be the same again. And you know you can't make somebody love you, and sometimes you have to let them be free, and this letting go, that is when love hurts the most.
“A person can learn a lot from a dog, even a loopy one like ours. Marley taught me about living each day with unbridled exuberance and joy, about seizing the moment and following your heart. He taught me to appreciate the simple things - a walk in the woods, a fresh snowfall, a nap in a shaft of winter sunlight. And as he grew old and achy, he taught me about optimism in the face of adversity. Mostly, he taught me about friendship and selflessness and, above all else, unwavering loyalty.”—John Grogan; Marley and Me
“Before I met you I thought my world had everything I needed to be happy. I had nothing else to compare to. Then you walked into my life and everything changed. I realized how empty my world was without you in it, and my old life was no longer capable of making me happy, not without you. I love everything about you Brooke, I love the way you challenge me like no one ever has, I love the way you look at me like no one ever has, and I love the way you love me like no one ever has. I cant imagine spending my life without you, and if you say yes to me in a few minutes, I wont have to.”—One Tree Hill
“I think relationships can be defined by big moments that don’t happen, or by the little ones that do. But once you get past the drama, it’s actually pretty simple: all you have to do is whatever it takes to make her happy.”—Scrubs
Hey! I enjoy reading your tumblr and I visit it every time im online.
I really need your advice.
I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of 2 months. It isnt because of a change of hearts or anything along those lines, but rather something more personal.
It's so awkward because i see him in school everyday. Its been almost 2 weeks and we have not really talked. I wished we never started. I miss him but im guessing he doesn't feel the same. What should i do? Im getting really stressed out here. I still love him :'(
Yep, I know how it feels to see an ex boyfriend around in school. Hmm I’m sure your reason to break up with him must have been a pretty valid one since you still love him. Otherwise you wouldn’t have done it right? I think it’s normal to miss someone after a relationship, especially if you still have feelings for him. I know it’s hard but I guess you just have to be brave and try to move on if you think it’s for the better? Otherwise if you think you still want to be with him, talk to him about it and see how it goes. Good luck dear x
Ahh I need help can you help me out?
Well my friend just asked me out 3 weeks ago and i said yes to him.
So we been dating but hes really shy with me i don't no what to do when I'm around him because of that. Now he thinks i don't really care about him or really like him. I do but its just that i don't know what to do or say can u help me pleas (:
Hello! How about texting him or writing him a letter or an email to let him know how you genuinely feel? Just let him know that he should be more proactive so that it’d be easier for you to express yourself and be more comfortable around him :>