Homosexuality is just something that has been institutionalized as ‘abnormal’ by many states and it does feel a little funny sometimes seeing gay couples on the streets but I guess it’s because most of us have been socialized into the norm that a couple should be a man and a female and nothing else. But I’m fine with it. A few of my good friends are lesbians and gays but it doesn’t change anything between us, nor do I disapprove of them.
Hi, so I read your quotes & I really like them! Since I see other people asking you for relationship advice, I decided to ask you for help in my situation.
So a couple weeks ago I started talking to this guy in my school. We were in the same class for a while but never talked until we started talking on fb. It lead to texting and me going over to his house to chill. So when I went to his house the first time, we didnt do anything, just talk about stuff, and get to know eachother. Then the next day I went over again and this time we kind of started flirting, we wrestled on the bed, layed beside eachother on the bed asking eachother questions, and suprisingly we never kissed or did anything sexual laying on the bed, which is refreshing to me. I find he is a sweet and genuinly nice guy, which is what attracted me to him. anyways, the 3rd time i went to chill with him we watched a movie and nothing happened except we talked and joked around and stuff. he would lean on me , but nothing too bad. After that we stopped texting eachother as much, he stopped replying to me, when i see him in school he doesnt talk to me.. I mean did i do something wrong? Did I get mixed signals from him because I was so sure he liked me back. Then I started noticing him talking to this other girl in our school and i admit I was a little jealous, even though we aren;t in any type of relationship, but I am really confused.. did I give the impression that I wasnt interested? Or was it because I read all the signals wrong and he only wanted me as a friend.. well thats about it. I would really appreciate your advice! I know this is long but I tried to cut it down as much as possible! Thanks again I think your tumblr is amazing :)
- Confused Girl
Hello there :) Hmm do you think maybe he’s busier recently? Or there could be a possibility that he thought you weren’t interested (cause I’m not sure how you reacted to his smses etc) so he needs some time to ‘get over’ you? I’m not entirely sure either… but I think it’s best if you ask him out and hang out with him to see if things are different. If there is, you can probably ask him if there’s anything wrong so things can be straightened out. Sorry I can’t be of much help :( Do keep me updated if anything happens. x
“One day you fall for this boy. And he touches you with his fingers. And he burns holes in your skin with his mouth. And it hurts when you look at him. And it hurts when you don’t. And it feels like someone’s cut you open with a jagged piece of glass.”—Maureen Medved
Dreams and wishes are always crushing when they don't come true. But it's the simplest of them, like having the one you love, love you back that are often the most painful because they are so personal and so yearned for but there are times when it seems like you're never close enough. And that's enough to break anyone's heart.
“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”—Nicholas Sparks
“Sometimes when you’re young you think nothing can hurt you. It’s like being invincible. Your whole life is ahead of you and you have big plans. Big Plans. To find your perfect match, the one who completes you. But as you get older you realize it’s not always that easy. It’s not until the end of your life that you realize how the plans you made were simply plans. Because at the end when you’re looking back instead of forward you want to believe you made the most of what life gave you. You want to believe you’re leaving something good behind. You want it all to have mattered.”—One Tree Hill
“She couldn’t seem to let go. She couldn’t let go because she didn’t want to let go and she didn’t want to let go because he was all she had, but she didn’t really have him, so she felt lost and confused.”—PS. I love you
i started talking to a guy recently (end of december). and he constantly txted and flirted with me, complimenting me, saying how hes really attracted to me and wants to make a move...at first i just said thanks but i started to feel the same so i flirted back, all was going well, we discussed how we were both into each other one night....then the following week we barely talked...now another week went by and it seems like hes not interested. i dont know what to do. Im really into him. i txted/msged him first a few times and he hasnt msged me first though he did reply to my txts. i tried to bring it up but he said everything was okay...advice?
Hello there, I’ve kind of experienced a similar situation before so this is kinda like deja vu for me hahah. I’m not the guy so I can’t say for sure but my hunch feeling tells me he may be thinking twice about commitment. Happens sometimes because commitment is a big thing and some people may not be just ready for it yet. Try talking to him about it and ask if he still feels the same way about you.. I think in this case it’s best to be direct, but not pushy. Chin up alright? :)
Hey! I love your blog. I've been messaging you, and you don't answer yet to any of 'em. Well, anyway keep posting. You got some cool stuff there! Rad quotes, by the way! <3 :)
Hi there! Sorry for the lag in replies, I’ve been up to my neck in school and work and everything else in between. Will try my best to reply as promptly as I can. Thank you for your compliments :> Have a good week ahead!
Hi. I'm sorry if this is completely out of the blue. But I really don't know what to do.
My ex and I broke up on New Years Eve. The fact is, we were best friends before and we decided to remain friends. The reason we broke up was because he couldn't handle the pressure from his friends.
It might have been easier if we went to a normal school, but we're both in boarding. I see him everyday.
Things weren't so good after that. He would avoid me sometimes, but then he'll act like nothing ever happened and it would be just like old times. He asked me out last week, and I said yes. But he bailed on me at the last minute, because he was broke. I was okay with that, a little hurt though.
But then my friend told me that she saw him at the shop, with his friends. And that was enough to send me to tears. But I calmed down enough to understand that his friend had treated his whole group.
Yesterday, one of his friends asked my friend if I was angry at him, and if there was a chance for us to get back together. She responded by saying, " Its not my place to say anything but i'l just say that she's not his biggest fan at the moment."
I don't know what to do, because I still have feelings for him. But he put me through a lot of hurt, even if it was unintentional. Should I give him another chance?
Hello there, just wondering if he did say or hint that he wants to get back together? I think you should try to see if he has genuinely straightened himself out and is able to handle peer pressure now because if he hasn’t, then it’s back to square one and the problem will still persist and you’ll get hurt again. If he hasn’t, then perhaps moving on and letting go will be a better choice… Hope everything’ll work out the way it should for you. Be happy :> x
“Love is like grass. If you fall on it, it may leave a stain and some temporary pain. But you’ll get over the pain, it will eventually stop hurting. Now maybe the stain ruined your favorite pair of jeans, or maybe it was nothing special that was ruined, but either way the stain remains there. And with time, it will begin to fade, but it will always be there, a permanent reminder that you, too, once fell.”—John Mayer
There are times when life unexpectedly hands you something so amazing, you feel like you're in a dream but no matter how many times you pinch yourself, you don't wake up. It's moments like these that makes life worth living because no matter how hard some days are, these miracle moments lift you right back on your feet.
“Things aren’t always going to be fair in the real world, that’s just the way it is. But for the most part, you get what you give. With the dreams you chase, the choices you make, and the person you decide to be, the rest of your life begins right now.”—
If you're feeling frightened about what comes next, don't be. Embrace the uncertainty and allow it to lead you to places. Spin wildly into action and enjoy the moments as they come. And if you should ever look up and find yourself lost, take a deep breath and start over. Retrace your steps and go back to your heart, the purest of place where hope lingers deep down. You'll find your way again.
“Everything we do is a choice. Oatmeal or cereal, highways or sidestreets, kiss her or keep her. We make choices and we live with the consequences. if someone gets hurt along the way, we ask for forgiveness. It’s the best anyone can do.”—Pushing Daisies
“Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold onto something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t come back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain.”—Henry Rollins
I need help.
I love this girl. She's best friend. A few days ago she told me she likes this girl, who i our friend. Lets name my friend a and my best friend b.
Last yr, a told b that she has feelings for her but b didn't want to be in a r/s. And now, b tells me she likes a. And th minute b told me she likes a, I started getting jealous! Thn I realized that hey, I think i have feelings for b. So I asked a if she still likes b and she nodded... They went on a lunch date today and b told me she's gna confess to a. Yesterday, b told me to help her 'rehearse' for today's lunch date. I helped her because Im a best friend. I'm digging my own grave right? Idk what to do ):
Im falling for my best friend
I think you did the right thing because you want her to be happy. But I also think if you really love her, you should fight for your own happiness and let her know how you feel. Even if things don’t work out between the both of you, take heart because you’ll still be best friends and I think that’s something extremely precious as well :>
I want to find someone who won't go away. Someone who'll look me in the eyes and tell me it's okay that things don't always go right, because on days like these, he will always be with me to make things better.
“Learn to let go of the past, and recognize that every day won’t be sunny. And when you find yourself lost in the darkness and despair, remember it’s only in the black of night that you see the stars, and those stars will lead you back home. So don’t be afraid to make mistakes, to stumble and fall, because most of the time, the greatest rewards come from doing the things that scare you the most. Maybe you’ll get everything you wish for. Maybe you’ll get more than you ever could have imagined. Who knows where life will take you. The road is long and in the end, the journey is the destination.”—One Tree Hill
i really really have a a problem and it’s the BIGGEST rumors in our school
i NEED your help plsssssss…. Sorry if it’s too LONG and quite CONFUSING i just really really need ur help;(
here it is,…here this boy just named him as k. I just met him when we were Junior. Yup at first i had love at first sight at him coZ i always saw him being sad! well really looks can be decieving coz when i get to know him better he’s a joker even bulley , horny . That’s why i didn’t get attach to him as before.
We used to play chess that’s the way we get closer, he used to tease me, and i’m kinda boyish and he was amazed of what my attitudes are coz i know the tricks of some horny boys for example girls must cover their clevage to avoid pee.
I don’t know coz i have the recent feelings before that he do likes me.
He used to tease me and so with other girls but what i notice is when i’m with him he only flirts with me and not with other girls. Sometimes he told me that i’m beautiful with a smile & i don’t know if that’s true coz maybe it’s just a joke and the next day he ask me to if he could court me & i answer directly No!
But still our friendship continues….
Now on school year,…we’re not classmates but on vacation he asked my cozin if what section i am. my cozin answered maybe she’ll be in section E coz that’s my dream section ever but unfortunately i’m in the section Z and he was in the section E :( days pass by and he used to stare at me everytime we meet no communications only eye contact that’s why i got attached to him again. He used to tease me again. Sometimes at the end of the tease, he could probably add, you like me??? then I will just not entertain him anymore!
Days pass again, and k classmate a girl told me that k likes me! Another his friend girl told me that i am k crush. I just don’t react. And the next day the girl that told me that k has a crush on me gave k her ipad and let k look,..and what i see at k is so happy , smiling with a down head and the girl told ma hey cha, don’t you like to know the result of the love calculator? and i said ha?! i didn’t know that they love calculate our name. and k classmate ask me if what’s my reaction i just answered eww.
After intrams ,my classmate who is a frnd of k was laughing at me and i don’t know why? and suddenly he approach me and said that said k to him that i am k’s X but eventually that’s not true coz i said not No him before, i remember that. and that he continue said k had a feelings on me that i look like K’s exgf’s hair and then i told him y should i believe u? he answered me: i’m his frnd.
yeah i found out that he was k’s close frnd since first yr and i alittle bit believe him! Next day his frnd have a high 5 on my hand and said cha our secret in front of k and k just bow down his head.nxt day k told me that he likes and i got angry at him!!
2 months came i started to realize that i do have a feelings on him. I confess my feelings not to him but to others, and that’s my biggest fault coz it became a RUMORS and i stated to them that i was his x coz he used to claim me before .And now he denies me coZ maybe because of shame coZ i dumped him before:( And when i saw him he said some bad words infront of me saying that i’m ugly when in fact before he used to tell me that i’m beautiful before. He said that i’m such an ambitious girl that even if i get naked he wouldn’t like me!!! That i’ve a sin against him because of saying those things to others that are not true ,..But i swear it’s true, i even felt his heart whenever he came closer to me before,of what he told me before , of what his friends told me secretly ..and his eyes….(but that was just before) i admit it was my fault also of what i did before! but howcome he had easily recover and just forget me as if nothings happen???
i thought he was really into me & now i learned my lesson,.;) to never ever believe again in a sweetness of a boy;(:(
Hello there, you sent me the previous formspring which I just answered right? So sorry I took a few days to reply :( I guess if things are the way they are now, you can ask to meet up with him privately? But I think he’s being rather childish and immature about it so if he doesn’t wish to talk things out and continues saying horrid stuff about you, then you have to try to let go and forget about him. Don’t let one guy dampen your faith, it’s not worth it at all. I’m sure you’ll meet someone finer than that :) x
here's this boy he's kinda popular in our school and also a bully one.Let's just renamed him as k. K used to bully me and i used to punch HIM and later on he confessed on me that he likes me and ask me to be his gf. But i said no cause i don't have feelings for him!Next school yr passes a girl classmate of k told me that K likes me and i could really feel it through the eyes of the K everytime we pass by and as a girl i could really sense that he got feelings for me,& he even love calculate our name! and also one my boy classmate who's frnd of K said that K is claimming me as his x and blah blah k do shit luvs me and i said i don't believe you coz for me they're bad boys but i ask his frnd is that really true? and his frnd replied yes coz we're frnds! later on i got feelings for k cause imagine it was long ago and yet K's still into me. He said again he likes me he said beautiful things about me he said i'm beautiful that he can't pass on my standard. I didn't say anything i just had an angry face cause i was afraid maybe he'll just play on me.
later on our communication was cut! and i start to miss him and and i claim him as my X coz that was he claimed me before , And now it is the biggest rumor in our school! I just got disappointed of what k's reactions are: he said it was not true!
Yeah being x wasn't true but he did court me before but he denied! and now everytime we see each other it's like irritations!:( i dunno. i thought he's really into me but heck i just got only pain inside! yeah my best friend was right that he wasn't good for me but yet i do still miss him & luv him;( advise plsssss
I’m thinking maybe his feelings for you faded? But I guess chances are he may have misread your feelings towards him and thought you were rejecting him so he wants to salvage his pride now? If you still do like him, maybe you can send him an email or even meet up with him to tell him how you really feel and check with him if it’s mutual. Chin up! :)
I was taught to look before I leap, but I was also taught a little something about adventure and taking risks. I guess every now and then we just have to take a leap of faith and dive into a situation headfirst without thinking or looking too hard. Maybe we'll crash and burn... or maybe it'll be the best thing we've ever done.
Things don't always work out as planned and in the midst of confusion, we often wonder how things could ever be right again. But life has a way of working out, sometimes better than we could ever imagine, surpassing all of our dreams and expectations.