Homosexuality is just something that has been institutionalized as ‘abnormal’ by many states and it does feel a little funny sometimes seeing gay couples on the streets but I guess it’s because most of us have been socialized into the norm that a couple should be a man and a female and nothing else. But I’m fine with it. A few of my good friends are lesbians and gays but it doesn’t change anything between us, nor do I disapprove of them.
Hi, so I read your quotes & I really like them! Since I see other people asking you for relationship advice, I decided to ask you for help in my situation.
So a couple weeks ago I started talking to this guy in my school. We were in the same class for a while but never talked until we started talking on fb. It lead to texting and me going over to his house to chill. So when I went to his house the first time, we didnt do anything, just talk about stuff, and get to know eachother. Then the next day I went over again and this time we kind of started flirting, we wrestled on the bed, layed beside eachother on the bed asking eachother questions, and suprisingly we never kissed or did anything sexual laying on the bed, which is refreshing to me. I find he is a sweet and genuinly nice guy, which is what attracted me to him. anyways, the 3rd time i went to chill with him we watched a movie and nothing happened except we talked and joked around and stuff. he would lean on me , but nothing too bad. After that we stopped texting eachother as much, he stopped replying to me, when i see him in school he doesnt talk to me.. I mean did i do something wrong? Did I get mixed signals from him because I was so sure he liked me back. Then I started noticing him talking to this other girl in our school and i admit I was a little jealous, even though we aren;t in any type of relationship, but I am really confused.. did I give the impression that I wasnt interested? Or was it because I read all the signals wrong and he only wanted me as a friend.. well thats about it. I would really appreciate your advice! I know this is long but I tried to cut it down as much as possible! Thanks again I think your tumblr is amazing :)
- Confused Girl
Hello there :) Hmm do you think maybe he’s busier recently? Or there could be a possibility that he thought you weren’t interested (cause I’m not sure how you reacted to his smses etc) so he needs some time to ‘get over’ you? I’m not entirely sure either… but I think it’s best if you ask him out and hang out with him to see if things are different. If there is, you can probably ask him if there’s anything wrong so things can be straightened out. Sorry I can’t be of much help :( Do keep me updated if anything happens. x
“One day you fall for this boy. And he touches you with his fingers. And he burns holes in your skin with his mouth. And it hurts when you look at him. And it hurts when you don’t. And it feels like someone’s cut you open with a jagged piece of glass.”—Maureen Medved
Dreams and wishes are always crushing when they don't come true. But it's the simplest of them, like having the one you love, love you back that are often the most painful because they are so personal and so yearned for but there are times when it seems like you're never close enough. And that's enough to break anyone's heart.
“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”—Nicholas Sparks
“Sometimes when you’re young you think nothing can hurt you. It’s like being invincible. Your whole life is ahead of you and you have big plans. Big Plans. To find your perfect match, the one who completes you. But as you get older you realize it’s not always that easy. It’s not until the end of your life that you realize how the plans you made were simply plans. Because at the end when you’re looking back instead of forward you want to believe you made the most of what life gave you. You want to believe you’re leaving something good behind. You want it all to have mattered.”—One Tree Hill
“She couldn’t seem to let go. She couldn’t let go because she didn’t want to let go and she didn’t want to let go because he was all she had, but she didn’t really have him, so she felt lost and confused.”—PS. I love you
i started talking to a guy recently (end of december). and he constantly txted and flirted with me, complimenting me, saying how hes really attracted to me and wants to make a move...at first i just said thanks but i started to feel the same so i flirted back, all was going well, we discussed how we were both into each other one night....then the following week we barely talked...now another week went by and it seems like hes not interested. i dont know what to do. Im really into him. i txted/msged him first a few times and he hasnt msged me first though he did reply to my txts. i tried to bring it up but he said everything was okay...advice?
Hello there, I’ve kind of experienced a similar situation before so this is kinda like deja vu for me hahah. I’m not the guy so I can’t say for sure but my hunch feeling tells me he may be thinking twice about commitment. Happens sometimes because commitment is a big thing and some people may not be just ready for it yet. Try talking to him about it and ask if he still feels the same way about you.. I think in this case it’s best to be direct, but not pushy. Chin up alright? :)
Hey! I love your blog. I've been messaging you, and you don't answer yet to any of 'em. Well, anyway keep posting. You got some cool stuff there! Rad quotes, by the way! <3 :)
Hi there! Sorry for the lag in replies, I’ve been up to my neck in school and work and everything else in between. Will try my best to reply as promptly as I can. Thank you for your compliments :> Have a good week ahead!
Hi. I'm sorry if this is completely out of the blue. But I really don't know what to do.
My ex and I broke up on New Years Eve. The fact is, we were best friends before and we decided to remain friends. The reason we broke up was because he couldn't handle the pressure from his friends.
It might have been easier if we went to a normal school, but we're both in boarding. I see him everyday.
Things weren't so good after that. He would avoid me sometimes, but then he'll act like nothing ever happened and it would be just like old times. He asked me out last week, and I said yes. But he bailed on me at the last minute, because he was broke. I was okay with that, a little hurt though.
But then my friend told me that she saw him at the shop, with his friends. And that was enough to send me to tears. But I calmed down enough to understand that his friend had treated his whole group.
Yesterday, one of his friends asked my friend if I was angry at him, and if there was a chance for us to get back together. She responded by saying, " Its not my place to say anything but i'l just say that she's not his biggest fan at the moment."
I don't know what to do, because I still have feelings for him. But he put me through a lot of hurt, even if it was unintentional. Should I give him another chance?
Hello there, just wondering if he did say or hint that he wants to get back together? I think you should try to see if he has genuinely straightened himself out and is able to handle peer pressure now because if he hasn’t, then it’s back to square one and the problem will still persist and you’ll get hurt again. If he hasn’t, then perhaps moving on and letting go will be a better choice… Hope everything’ll work out the way it should for you. Be happy :> x
“Love is like grass. If you fall on it, it may leave a stain and some temporary pain. But you’ll get over the pain, it will eventually stop hurting. Now maybe the stain ruined your favorite pair of jeans, or maybe it was nothing special that was ruined, but either way the stain remains there. And with time, it will begin to fade, but it will always be there, a permanent reminder that you, too, once fell.”—John Mayer
There are times when life unexpectedly hands you something so amazing, you feel like you're in a dream but no matter how many times you pinch yourself, you don't wake up. It's moments like these that makes life worth living because no matter how hard some days are, these miracle moments lift you right back on your feet.
“Things aren’t always going to be fair in the real world, that’s just the way it is. But for the most part, you get what you give. With the dreams you chase, the choices you make, and the person you decide to be, the rest of your life begins right now.”—